Well every day is not good because they need to eat and digest, they need to shed, and they need to poop. Ball pythons do not like to be handled during these times.
Ball pythons do not like to be coddled for hours at a time.
A conservative amount would be 1-2 times a week out of shed and not for a day or two after eating and never longer than 15-30 minutes at a time.
Pretty much letting your snake chill for 2 days after eating and not touching while in shed is at least you can do to give them some peace. Any other time is up to you but ball pythons don't need handling.