If she's less deadset on a BEL, I'd advise talking to the breeders and asking them for their "most friendly animal". Most smaller breeders will know exactly which one to show you. I got mine as an adult male pinstripe at 2 yrs old, skipping feeding weeks. Obviously not a high-ticket animal.
But for me and my GF who's new to the hobby, with a bit of TLC he's turned into a great feeder and is so NOT headshy that he'll sometimes let you pet the top of his head with a finger and not flinch at all as long as you don't startle him.
There's nothing wrong with normals, though. Some people turn up their nose at them, but I've seen some simply GORGEOUS "dinkers" (atypical normals) on this forum that I personally find far more beautiful and enticing than some of the highest-ticket animals like pieds.