I had to chuckle when reading this because I just went through this same experience. For some reason out of the blue, I woke up wanting a BP and my wife thought I was crazy. For 2-3 months, I watched youtube videos which gave my wife the impression that I just might be serious about this obsession. I actually went to the Repticon Atlanta a month ago (is it really coming up again?????). I went w/ the intentions of really seeing if this obsession was limited to the videos or if seeing some of these morphs in person were as stunning as I imagined they might be. I walked around talking to as many breeders as possible, asking the same questions that I've asked and read about on these forums. It wasn't until the last breeder that I encountered a BP that really peeked my interest. I debated purchasing him there but he was feeding on live food (which I did not want to deal with). I ended up looking around online and found an amazing breeder who had the same snake on F/T and that's all she wrote......
I have to say, I was one of the lucky ones who won my wife over w. my purchase. There's no way that I wanted an aggressive snake because of my kids or a snake eating live food. I would suggest researching the names of the breeders attending. You definitively get a sense when you're there of who is really a legit breeder who is just trying to make a buck.
Your comment about F/T next to the salmon is funny. I have my blue box of F/T hidden in the corner so my kids don't see it and I just ordered a fridge for the basement so I can bulk order some rats
Now you have me excited about the Atlanta Repticon. I didn't know it was coming again.