Nope. Not going to back off. "Free" advice has a price. Like you alluded to, you do not know who you are actually talking to, only maybe what someone puts in their profile. I'll give you a little hint, I've been at this in some shape way or form for 40 years. You, young lady, are making mistakes, shirking responsibility, and talking like a sailor. If you are smart, after you cool off, you are going to realize we are right.