You can't ask for advice and not be willing to make changes, we'll actually you can, just don't expect people to bother.
I could take each point and tell you that you are wrong but I won't waste my time, you were offered viable PROVEN solutions that have work for many, now it' up to YOU. YOU are the one complaining about feeding issues and lacking the experience to help fix them, not me.
Good luck.
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