So here's an update I guess lol: I tried offering her food tonight and she not only refused but was very clearly in defense mode and tried to snap at me. So I'll leave her alone until next week. I felt kind of bad even trying because after I left her alone she still stayed in the S shape for a few minutes. I know this is silly to say but I hope she doesn't hate me and I hope I'm doing everything that's required of me. Right now I'm just using the heat lamp the past owner gave me but it's kinda frustrating trying to make sure the heat and humidity are always where they're supposed to be. I have a UTH but I don't want to use it until my thermostat comes in the mail this week. I've heard humidity is more regulated with a UTH but it's so difficult to keep moisture in the tank with a heat lamp . And I have two thermometers one on the cool side one on the basking side, I know it's silly but it makes me less paranoid about the temps and the humidity.