When is it okay to demand a refund?

[redshepherd]

I called paypal last night and this morning, and the paypal person told me last night that his account is NOT locked.

So this guy has been lying to me, and who knows what else he is lying about, probably has been lying to me about everything for the past 3 months, and is a total bad guy.

I just spent an hour calling paypal this morning, and they just can't do anything about anything being sent as friends family. But they said that they'll call and email him to try to get me a refund (obviously that won't do anything).

Now what do I do? How do I sue someone from a different state?