I cant believe you have given the enemy the leverage you may have had. You told him outright you screwed up and sent it Friends & Family??? You just showed him all your cards. I was trying to explain earlier not to leave yourself open like that.
If he insured this package and you paid for it then id contact Fedex and see what they suggest. Call Paypal too and tell them you chose Friends & Family BY ACCIDENT. See what they suggest because at this point not to be mean but you have shown this jerk all your cards.
By the way to answer your question, PAYPAL is a private company, this guy is lying his butt off if he said he cant send a money order and you just keep falling for all his nonsense.
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