Thanks everyone for your kind replies and big welcome! It really is such a shame that so many perish due to folks getting them and never taking the time to learn to cater to their specific needs, im so glad that I woke up before it was to late and now I have a beautiful, happy girl to show for it. As soon as I can figure out how i`ll post a pic.
I have a lot of unanswered questions still, but im sure that it will all come in time, with experience, and with your help. I just hope that someday i`ll be able to help someone also. Thanks again!