*new bally mommy* i had my girl for 2 weeks now, i do have her in a 20g tank, she has already fed twice - every 6th day - next feeding she will go up in size, she is always in her hiding rock on the warm side during the day (which is when i spot clean - change water/paper towel/fresh moss), on nights that she is not feeding or digesting i take her out to hang while i thoroughly clean her tank! Everyone has their own routine, and this one works for me