My poor baby...

[Craiga 01453]

Thanks for the pep talk. I am set on doing what's right for him and I do understand long term care for pets. I have a cat that is almost 17 years old and I am the only owner of her. Picked her out of the litter before her eyes were even open. I'm a firm believer is when an animal comes into my home, they don't leave until it's time for them to meet their maker. Unless re-homing is what's best for them because I'm screwing up so badly. I have never up to this point had to re-home an animal. I do agree with you on wanting another sooner rather than later, but not until I can get things worked out with him. He is very addicting for me and I believe it's because I find no so darn cute. I know I sound crazy now. Lol. Thank you again for the words of advice and the pep talk. Is there a snake breed out there you can handle more often than the balls?? Something just as pretty to look at.


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My pleasure, that's what we're her for, to help...
I have no doubt, based on everything I've read in this thread, that you will figure it out and provide a fantastic life-long home for your snake. You don't sound crazy at all, just excited. Who can blame you? You've got an awesome new animal at home!! We all still get excited to bring a new snake home, that's why you see people proudly posting pics of their new snakes, even if they already have/have had several, dozens, even hundreds of snakes. It's exciting because we are passionate about the animals we choose to keep, and your passion is showing in your excitement. Unfortunately, the snakes don't share that excitement and just want to be left alone to adjust, learn how to survive and not be eaten. All they know is how to survive=eat and don't be eaten. They hide to avoid being eaten, and until they are adjusted and feel safe in their enclosure, EVERYTHING is a threat that is trying to eat them, including us. They will soon realize that we are not a threat and develop a trust, but first they must feel comfortable in their enclosure. So be patient, I know its hard, but it is what's best for the animal, and in time will benefit you as well. You will be able to handle your snake regularly while maintaining a safe, healthy environment. As far as snakes that can be handled more, I really don't know if there are any that are easier to handle and tolerate handling better than BPs, maybe somebody else might know more, but I personally don't. I also have an adult Cali King and two juvenile Corn snakes and absolutely love them as well. Both come in beautiful morphs and their husbandry requirements are more forgiving than BPs. They are longer, more narrow snakes and tend to be more curious and on-the-go while being handled, but should definitely be given the same time to adjust as well as handling limitations. My King will often be out for an hour or so at a time, but he's also had plenty of time with me, has proper husbandry and eats like a champ, so he is well adjusted. My BP is still a juvenile (approx. 22 inches and 188 grams as of a few days ago) and has been with me since mid January. I usually handle him daily for about 15-20 minutes, sometimes longer, at a time. He is doing extremely well, eating like a horse and growing like a weed. I'm actually expecting him to shed today and hoping to get some nice new pictures of his fresh-shed beauty.
Anyway, keep doing what you're doing as far as questioning, learning and applying. I have faith in you and truly believe your snake is in a great home. We are all rooting for you and here when you need us.

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Thanks for the pep talk. I am set on doing what's right for him and I do understand long term care for pets. I have a cat that is almost 17 years old and I am the only owner of her. Picked her out of the litter before her eyes were even open. I'm a firm believer is when an animal comes into my home, they don't leave until it's time for them to meet their maker. Unless re-homing is what's best for them because I'm screwing up so badly. I have never up to this point had to re-home an animal. I do agree with you on wanting another sooner rather than later, but not until I can get things worked out with him. He is very addicting for me and I believe it's because I find no so darn cute. I know I sound crazy now. Lol. Thank you again for the words of advice and the pep talk. Is there a snake breed out there you can handle more often than the balls?? Something just as pretty to look at.


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My pleasure, that's what we're her for, to help...
I have no doubt, based on everything I've read in this thread, that you will figure it out and provide a fantastic life-long home for your snake. You don't sound crazy at all, just excited. Who can blame you? You've got an awesome new animal at home!! We all still get excited to bring a new snake home, that's why you see people proudly posting pics of their new snakes, even if they already have/have had several, dozens, even hundreds of snakes. It's exciting because we are passionate about the animals we choose to keep, and your passion is showing in your excitement. Unfortunately, the snakes don't share that excitement and just want to be left alone to adjust, learn how to survive and not be eaten. All they know is how to survive=eat and don't be eaten. They hide to avoid being eaten, and until they are adjusted and feel safe in their enclosure, EVERYTHING is a threat that is trying to eat them, including us. They will soon realize that we are not a threat and develop a trust, but first they must feel comfortable in their enclosure. So be patient, I know its hard, but it is what's best for the animal, and in time will benefit you as well. You will be able to handle your snake regularly while maintaining a safe, healthy environment. As far as snakes that can be handled more, I really don't know if there are any that are easier to handle and tolerate handling better than BPs, maybe somebody else might know more, but I personally don't. I also have an adult Cali King and two juvenile Corn snakes and absolutely love them as well. Both come in beautiful morphs and their husbandry requirements are more forgiving than BPs. They are longer, more narrow snakes and tend to be more curious and on-the-go while being handled, but should definitely be given the same time to adjust as well as handling limitations. My King will often be out for an hour or so at a time, but he's also had plenty of time with me, has proper husbandry and eats like a champ, so he is well adjusted. My BP is still a juvenile (approx. 22 inches and 188 grams as of a few days ago) and has been with me since mid January. I usually handle him daily for about 15-20 minutes, sometimes longer, at a time. He is doing extremely well, eating like a horse and growing like a weed. I'm actually expecting him to shed today and hoping to get some nice new pictures of his fresh-shed beauty.
Anyway, keep doing what you're doing as far as questioning, learning and applying. I have faith in you and truly believe your snake is in a great home. We are all rooting for you and here when you need us.

[Ckrumn]

My pleasure, that's what we're her for, to help...
I have no doubt, based on everything I've read in this thread, that you will figure it out and provide a fantastic life-long home for your snake. You don't sound crazy at all, just excited. Who can blame you? You've got an awesome new animal at home!! We all still get excited to bring a new snake home, that's why you see people proudly posting pics of their new snakes, even if they already have/have had several, dozens, even hundreds of snakes. It's exciting because we are passionate about the animals we choose to keep, and your passion is showing in your excitement. Unfortunately, the snakes don't share that excitement and just want to be left alone to adjust, learn how to survive and not be eaten. All they know is how to survive=eat and don't be eaten. They hide to avoid being eaten, and until they are adjusted and feel safe in their enclosure, EVERYTHING is a threat that is trying to eat them, including us. They will soon realize that we are not a threat and develop a trust, but first they must feel comfortable in their enclosure. So be patient, I know its hard, but it is what's best for the animal, and in time will benefit you as well. You will be able to handle your snake regularly while maintaining a safe, healthy environment. As far as snakes that can be handled more, I really don't know if there are any that are easier to handle and tolerate handling better than BPs, maybe somebody else might know more, but I personally don't. I also have an adult Cali King and two juvenile Corn snakes and absolutely love them as well. Both come in beautiful morphs and their husbandry requirements are more forgiving than BPs. They are longer, more narrow snakes and tend to be more curious and on-the-go while being handled, but should definitely be given the same time to adjust as well as handling limitations. My King will often be out for an hour or so at a time, but he's also had plenty of time with me, has proper husbandry and eats like a champ, so he is well adjusted. My BP is still a juvenile (approx. 22 inches and 188 grams as of a few days ago) and has been with me since mid January. I usually handle him daily for about 15-20 minutes, sometimes longer, at a time. He is doing extremely well, eating like a horse and growing like a weed. I'm actually expecting him to shed today and hoping to get some nice new pictures of his fresh-shed beauty.
Anyway, keep doing what you're doing as far as questioning, learning and applying. I have faith in you and truly believe your snake is in a great home. We are all rooting for you and here when you need us.

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My pleasure, that's what we're her for, to help...
I have no doubt, based on everything I've read in this thread, that you will figure it out and provide a fantastic life-long home for your snake. You don't sound crazy at all, just excited. Who can blame you? You've got an awesome new animal at home!! We all still get excited to bring a new snake home, that's why you see people proudly posting pics of their new snakes, even if they already have/have had several, dozens, even hundreds of snakes. It's exciting because we are passionate about the animals we choose to keep, and your passion is showing in your excitement. Unfortunately, the snakes don't share that excitement and just want to be left alone to adjust, learn how to survive and not be eaten. All they know is how to survive=eat and don't be eaten. They hide to avoid being eaten, and until they are adjusted and feel safe in their enclosure, EVERYTHING is a threat that is trying to eat them, including us. They will soon realize that we are not a threat and develop a trust, but first they must feel comfortable in their enclosure. So be patient, I know its hard, but it is what's best for the animal, and in time will benefit you as well. You will be able to handle your snake regularly while maintaining a safe, healthy environment. As far as snakes that can be handled more, I really don't know if there are any that are easier to handle and tolerate handling better than BPs, maybe somebody else might know more, but I personally don't. I also have an adult Cali King and two juvenile Corn snakes and absolutely love them as well. Both come in beautiful morphs and their husbandry requirements are more forgiving than BPs. They are longer, more narrow snakes and tend to be more curious and on-the-go while being handled, but should definitely be given the same time to adjust as well as handling limitations. My King will often be out for an hour or so at a time, but he's also had plenty of time with me, has proper husbandry and eats like a champ, so he is well adjusted. My BP is still a juvenile (approx. 22 inches and 188 grams as of a few days ago) and has been with me since mid January. I usually handle him daily for about 15-20 minutes, sometimes longer, at a time. He is doing extremely well, eating like a horse and growing like a weed. I'm actually expecting him to shed today and hoping to get some nice new pictures of his fresh-shed beauty.
Anyway, keep doing what you're doing as far as questioning, learning and applying. I have faith in you and truly believe your snake is in a great home. We are all rooting for you and here when you need us.

We looked at the corn snake while we were at the pet store also but the sales clerk said as they get older you have to transition them to live feed. We were told with balls, you can continue to feen frozen as long as they will eat them. I have issues with feeding live. I hate to see things die. Yes I understand it's all part of nature, no I'm not an animal rights nutcase. It's a personal thing with me. I can't do it. If I could find someone willing to come feed him for me, I'm fine with that. I would supply whatever was needed.


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[Kaorte]

We looked at the corn snake while we were at the pet store also but the sales clerk said as they get older you have to transition them to live feed. We were told with balls, you can continue to feen frozen as long as they will eat them. I have issues with feeding live. I hate to see things die. Yes I understand it's all part of nature, no I'm not an animal rights nutcase. It's a personal thing with me. I can't do it. If I could find someone willing to come feed him for me, I'm fine with that. I would supply whatever was needed.


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Live feeding is really not that bad. I have always apologized to the prey before sending them off to the snake enclosure. Fortunately, the snake kills them very quickly. I used to breed my own rats so I knew they were well fed and had a good life.

Where do you live? I'll come throw a rat in there for ya haha.

Anyway, try to relax. You have the new owner worries. Everyone gets them. I got them. I made tons of rookie mistakes when I got my first BP. You are doing just fine.


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[Ckrumn]

Live feeding is really not that bad. I have always apologized to the prey before sending them off to the snake enclosure. Fortunately, the snake kills them very quickly. I used to breed my own rats so I knew they were well fed and had a good life.

Where do you live? I'll come throw a rat in there for ya haha.

Anyway, try to relax. You have the new owner worries. Everyone gets them. I got them. I made tons of rookie mistakes when I got my first BP. You are doing just fine.


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I'm south of Houston in Texas. Please feel free to stop over anytime to feed my baby. I'm sure the first time is the hardest and it probably gets easier the more you do it, but I can't bring myself to that point yet. I won't let him starve. I will do it as a last resort. If he don't eat Sunday when he's scheduled for a feeding, I'm going to get him a live mouse/rat. Sunday puts him three weeks without feeding.


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[Zincubus]

We looked at the corn snake while we were at the pet store also but the sales clerk said as they get older you have to transition them to live feed. We were told with balls, you can continue to feen frozen as long as they will eat them. I have issues with feeding live. I hate to see things die. Yes I understand it's all part of nature, no I'm not an animal rights nutcase. It's a personal thing with me. I can't do it. If I could find someone willing to come feed him for me, I'm fine with that. I would supply whatever was needed.


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You don't have to feed any snakes LIVE in my humble opinion .... that's just my take on things but we simply don't live feed in the U.K. , of course .


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[Ckrumn]

You don't have to feed any snakes LIVE in my humble opinion .... that's just my take on things but we simply don't live feed in the U.K. , of course .


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Is that a rule of sorts over there or preference?? I'm just curious. You don't have to answer.


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[Zincubus]

Is that a rule of sorts over there or preference?? I'm just curious. You don't have to answer.


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It may well be illegal , I'm not 100% certain ...

It's just not accepted or even talked about in snake circles or forums , I'm sure the odd one or few DO feed live behind closed doors . Pretty sure the RSPCA take action when alerted .

Best ask Dr Del on in here he's more knowledgeable and experienced on snakey matters tbh


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[Craiga 01453]

We looked at the corn snake while we were at the pet store also but the sales clerk said as they get older you have to transition them to live feed. We were told with balls, you can continue to feen frozen as long as they will eat them. I have issues with feeding live. I hate to see things die. Yes I understand it's all part of nature, no I'm not an animal rights nutcase. It's a personal thing with me. I can't do it. If I could find someone willing to come feed him for me, I'm fine with that. I would supply whatever was needed.


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It seems to me that you took the advice of ONE individual, and from the sounds of things, not a well educated or experienced individual. This is why research takes time. If that guy told you that at a certain age corns will only eat pickles would you believe him? Prob not, you'd probably google "do snakes eat pickles?" to find the facts. My point being, do some homework, research before buying and eliminate the myths and headaches. Definitely a learning experience, which is a good thing. You'll know when/if you are ready for another snake, you'll have the enclosure all set up and ready to go before bringing the snake home, and you'll have less stress and headaches and more time to enjoy the snake.
So, you've really done nothing wrong to this point, you just didn't know. Maybe you've just created a minor setback, but that's ok. We ALL make mistakes at some point.
I've never heard that corns will only eat live, and I also prefer not to feed live. I prefer the safety of F/T as well as the convenience over live. I also personally don't care to see/hear the mouse/rat die if I don't have to. Out of sight, out of mind I suppose. I love all animals and also understand nature, so I choose to feed F/T. That being said, like I mentioned in a previous post, I own two corns and a King (both colubrids with very similar requirements) and have no plans to switch from F/T prey at any point in their lives. If that was a prerequisite, I would have chosen different animals.
But, we got off track a bit (my fault, sorry)...Just keep doing what you're doing with your snake and he will be fine. He will most likely need some help with this shed, but with adjustments should be ready for a healthy, one-piece shed in no time. In the meantime, give him the time like you are and get a few meals in him and he should be god to go moving forward.

[Ckrumn]

[QUOTE=craigafrechette;2511553]It seems to me that you took the advice of ONE individual, and from the sounds of things, not a well educated or experienced individual. This is why research takes time. If that guy told you that at a certain age corns will only eat pickles would you believe him? Prob not, you'd probably google "do snakes eat pickles?" to find the facts. My point being, do some homework, research before buying and eliminate the myths and headaches. Definitely a learning experience, which is a good thing. You'll know when/if you are ready for another snake, you'll have the enclosure all set up and ready to go before bringing the snake home, and you'll have less stress and headaches and more time to enjoy the snake.
So, you've really done nothing wrong to this point, you just didn't know. Maybe you've just created a minor setback, but that's ok. We ALL make mistakes at some point.
I've never heard that corns will only eat live, and I also prefer not to feed live. I prefer the safety of F/T as well as the convenience over live. I also personally don't care to see/hear the mouse/rat die if I don't have to. Out of sight, out of mind I suppose. I love all animals and also understand nature, so I choose to feed F/T. That being said, like I mentioned in a previous post, I own two corns and a King (both colubrids with very similar requirements) and have no plans to switch from F/T prey at any point in their lives. If that was a prerequisite, I would have chosen different animals.
But, we got off track a bit (my fault, sorry)...Just keep doing what you're doing with your snake and he will be fine. He will most likely need some help with this shed, but with adjustments should be ready for a healthy, one-piece shed in no time. In the meantime, give him the time like you are and get a few meals in him and he should be god to go moving forward.[/QUOTE

well I think we have the feed thing figured out. At least I have been given some great advice on when and how to feed. We have decided to feed at night in a lowlight area only by me. We were feeding middle of the day with everyone watching. I have a separate feeding tank for him as well. I was thawing his food in warm water but only bringing it to room temp. The plan is to do as you and others have suggested and heat it up with a hairdryer first. How will I know if it's over heated?? I don't want to burn him. Can I use a food thermometer for checking temp??


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