ok, I just don't like the thought of me stressing her out I should of waited anyways but the anticipation got the better of me this time but it wont happen again haha plus it doesent help that im very impatient. I think I might try round two with the Aether today he seems very chill maybe I can just focus more with working with him for now and just do the normal routine (no handling) with her for a couple more weekly feedings
then see what happens....thank you sauzo