I think most of my problem is the whole "you see what you expect to see," thing.
Looking at all my threads, it seems the ones I was having fun with didn't get any drama (with a small exception) and the ones I was expecting to get unnecessary insults/hate or what not I received. Or thought I had.
Much like I was approached with expectation of drama. So I was treated as such. So I guess it works in both ways.
Herp Derp