When my kids were little my daughter was all about snakes and bugs. Every time we would catch a snake in the yard she would play with them and my boys would be spazzing. lol You are totally right. My daughter was never taught to be afraid of them. My sons on the other were taught by their mother to be afraid of everything she is afraid of. So I ended up with 2 boys that are afraid of anything that crawls and a daughter that to this day isn't afraid anything.