I have a two year old IJ Jag who hasn't been handled much since I got her when she was a few months old. She's about 4 ft. long and weights 530 grams. Had some family issues at the time, ie. divorce, and I regret not handling her much except only to feed her and clean her tub. What’s the best way to start handling her again? I want to makeup for some time so for the last two weeks or so, whenever I tried to pick her up, she always wants to run away and explore the room. She’s always been a verocious feeder but she gets scared whenever I get close to her.