I've had the opposite experience. I've found that milks (I've only kept pueblans and hondurans) are much more high strung than the cal kings I've kept. Yes, the baby kings are probably a little more bitey, but the young milks will definitely toss the musk (or whatever else they have available for discharge at the moment) almost every time. My kings have always calmed down at a very young age. The milks are just more nervous, even as adults sometimes. Nonetheless, I love both kings and milks and think either is the "right" choice.