Bummer on the delay - and that I am too far away to attend anyway. I don't think it should be viewed as bad luck or anathema or anything negative to have things going on that day - it's about impossible to forget and I am pretty sure no matter what we're doing that day the significance of it will play through our minds on some level or another.
Now starting your family vacation Friday the 13th on the other hand . . . . .
Diversion of subject - will be trying to hit the Pittsburgh show this weekend if anyone relatively close is of the same mind . . . .
BTW nice avatar - a.versicolor?