Wife dilemma...

[dkatz4]

I agree with just about everyone. My fiance and I chose pets and freedom over having kids, so I won't have the same issue. But several of the women I work with have gotten pregnant over the last few months and I gotta say, pregnancy is rough and hormones make all kinds of things into big deals, but that's what you have to deal with if you want a family. Put aside what you want and try and keep HER calm/comfortable/and as much as possible stress free, focus on what SHE needs.

Also, how would she react knowing your asking virtual strangers for advice on your new marriage?.....I'd be going out a buying a crap-ton of chocolate and flowers and apologizing for even mentioning the word snake - chocolate makes all things better

I love my kids more than the air i breath, but sometimes i cant help but think of that 18 year countdown to "Pets and Freedom".