Quote Originally Posted by ianswiedler View Post
I have owned her for nearly 14 years
This one statement says A LOT and its probably nothing to do with husbandry.

I wouldn't try to feed her for a couple weeks to try and break up the routine.
There could be an underlying issue with her age and the change in her usual annual routine so I would keep an extra close eye on her.
My male spider only eats a couple rats a year like clockwork so I know how you feel.