Looking at your original post you did not come off as someone looking for help. You came off as a kid mad at his parents when you were scolded for going behind their back and getting another snake. You came on a snake forum looking for sympathy and attention, for example telling everyone you were crying as you were writing the post. I'm guessing the conversation didn't go as you had planned. If you were truly only looking for advice your post would have looked a lot different and replied to as such.