I only have females but they are both puppies. My normal tends to be more independent and will cruise around when I take her out but my little sunglow girl seems to like to sit on me. If I put her down, she just sits there lol. But then if I put my hand down next to her, she climbs right up my arm onto my shoulder haha. I personally don't think there is a predetermined temperament for a sex. Each snake regardless of sex will have its own personality.