When I first got my bp's, I didn't handle them for weeks. Not until they were eating consistently and had taken a few meals for me. After that I started handling them quite often. It has died down now. I handle them maybe 3-4 times a month (never handle when in shed or for 2 days after eating). I check up on them often and do maintenance; replace water and bedding when needed. My guys are so chill that I just don't need to keep up handling and I can be lazy with it. My BRB on the other hand, I try and handle her at least once a week. She's a naturally sweet girl but I feel like I need to keep it up with her.