Mr. Right is out there. He doesn't need to love herps, he needs to love you. my better half recently asked me "what would you do if you had a girl who said it's either me or the snakes?" I told her I would take the snakes because I would know that a girl who demanded that didn't really love me. you can't say you love someone and then ask them to give up their passion. No, she wasn't thinking about making such a demand, she just likes to ask hypothetical questions.