You can use anything to kind of block her from striking you, a rolled up piece of junk mail or newspaper works good, it doesn't have to be a hook. At that age I think most experienced keepers are just going to go for it and pick it up because a bite would hurt about as much as a kitten. But the roll method and slowly picking it up from behind is a safe bet, you'll learn to read your snakes body posture with due time. but as you said it's best to just go for it and it should come around sooner then later. If it does bite you when you have her out just go with it and keep handling it and don't put it back in, start slow with 10-15 minute sessions daily except after a feeding day and work your way up, and make sure your hands are free of any food scent before handling.