thank you for the reply, nice to see i can get a negative comment with insults, i guess in your mind feeding an animal in your care is the first thing you can do wrong. as that was step one. i get it might not be humane but she refuses frozen thawed and pre-killed. and last time i feed her an un-stunned rat well i don't like having to put medicine on a snake because a rat kicked its scale off with its clawed foot that to me is undue harm to my snake.
your inability to come off in any way as helpful though has really up set me and made my question if this is just a forum for people to flame those who ask questions so that people like you can get an ego boost. in fact in the 4 people i know who keep snakes personally 3 others have had this happened and 2 of them said i did the right thing i was just posting it on here for further commentary not criticism.
in closing thank you for the reply but honestly your approach and attitude has put me off of ever caring what you have to say.