Help please!

First time BP owner and already concerned.
We got her from a breeder at a reptile super show in LA on 1/09/16.

Like an idiot, I didn't ask about her age or eating habits.

She is only 65g and hasn't eaten.

We got frozen hoppers, and the first time we attempted to feed (about 5 days after getting her) she struck at it, coiled, but since she grabbed it sideways and couldn't get it in, She eventually gave up.

But we tried again 5 days later and she shows no interest.
Tried one more time on the 21st (3 days ago) and no luck again.

We have been trying in her enclosure.

She's in a 20G L with 3 hides, fake leaves, and a water dish.
Hottest hide:94
Middle hide: 83
Cool hide: 74

Humidity 40-60%

Kept pretty dark.
Wasn't active first week but very active now.
We didn't handle at all first week.

Have handled 3 times or so now though.

Shed once about 7 days ago.

Has.been seen partially in the water.
Didn't handle near times of feeding.

Tried with frozen hopper as live will be last resort.
Heated it up in Ziploc, dried it with paper towel, uses gloves the whole time to not get human scent on it, tried enriching with tongs.

Once we left it in there but she didn't care about it.

Advice??