Quote Originally Posted by Eric Alan View Post
What? Where did that come from? My intention is not to be agressive. If you knew me at all, you would know that I don't have that bone in my body.

I hear you saying that it's not your fault. If there is an underlying medical condition, it very well might not be. To get to that point, though, make sure the things that you can control are controlled. The condition of your snake is enough to say that something is not in control, so (again) focus on what you can control and rule out those things as you continue.

1) Finding a qualified vet to help you care for the prolapsed hemipenes is within your control.

2) Maintaining proper husbandry is within your control.

Taking action on these things is in no way saying that his current condition is entirely your fault. It is simply the responsible thing to do as a pet owner.
Sorry, I must have read it wrong. It sounded aggressive and condescending.