Thank you, you're right about the cartoon. I haven't actually watched it but from what I've seen of it, it seems... like not a good show to share a name with.
Interesting about AJ being a feminine name. I had only ever heard it in reference to men. I'll definitely keep that in mind.
I do like Ashton but I think of Ashton Kutcher. I guess there are worse celebrities to share a name with, though. I had considered Anderson as Anderson Cooper and don't see a downside to that.
Thanks again for the input, you've given me some things to consider!