I agree with Dave and would only add a few things;
1. the hand you are distracting her with...hold something medium to large in it like roll of paper towels. This will draw more attention and create a better distraction, if it’s just your hand it will still work but somethings having something larger makes the focus harder on it and when you reach in with your other hand you can sneak it right by her because she is fully keyed in on the distraction hand.
2. I'm simply emphasizing a point Dave made; put her back only when she has calmed down so she does not associate you handling her with feelings of fear
Let us know if she gets you really good one of these times![]()