i use unscented soap before and after i pick her up. And i looked everywhere online for the best way to get them off if they latch on and a little alcohol or Listerine in their mouth with get them off quickly. i only used a couple drops, nothing harmful. Trying to pry her off the first time defiantly seemed more uncomfortable for her than a couple drops of vodka. keep in mind she was incredibly tightly wrapped around me both times, not letting go even after 5 minutes. if you know of a better way then by all means, let me know.