I understand this and respect everyone's right to choose based on their situation. I think both f/t and live have their merits. Please don't think I'm trying to pick on you either because we might disagree. There are just plenty of pros you can use for encouraging others to choose f/t over live. Why rely on secondhand stories from irresponsible keepers and out of context pictures? Draw on your own experiences to convince folks with your personal positives and drop the fear mongering bit. I feel you'll have a much better chance at picking up some f/t converts this way.