I had a normal ball python as a kid. I am moving out and in college. I will be getting my first ball python in the next few months. It will hopefully be a vanilla ghost super pastel. I have done unbelievable amounts of research and I am ready but I can't decide on one thing. Male or female. I want a bigger snake but not so big that it doesn't want to be held or anything like that. If anyone has an adult female please post a picture and males as well. Just Please label them. Thank yall for thehelp