Theres nothing perplexing about it, you just refuse to accept other peoples expierences for some reason unless its online and in photo... Remember the world is huge and full of many people and not all of them run to the internet to inform the world on everything that happens, sometime they dont talk about it out loud till the need arises like in these kind of discussion. Its your job to learn from others expierence on subjects you have no expierence with not try and argue your point of view