If you do not have an incubator do not touch her at all. Either plan to leave her alone for the next 60 days, set up an incubator tonight (there are a few stickies on it), or toss out the eggs. If you remove the eggs, wash the tub and the female really well to get her back eating again. I usually just switch up tubs. Seems like no matter how much I clean, the pheromones stick!