Finally...

[PitOnTheProwl]

ME as a person DON'T take kindly to people telling me im doing something wrong that in my eyes is totally correct to ME, that's the reason for my NOT understanding/listening to erryyones posts thats trying to make ME out a bad PET owner

Yet you keep coming back for us to point out more error in your ways. Why is that?
I find it hilarious that you are tying to argue that you are right when people that are just getting started already have more knowledge.
I find it sad that IF that female is gravid you are going to have a clutch of normal that you are not even ready to remotely come close to caring for properly.
All I can to is shake my head and laugh.