I have decided that I am going to wait a couple of months and ship Xander (my BP).

This gives me time for one of my Fiance's friends to build him a larger enclosure.

It also gives me time to really decide whether keeping Xander is the best idea. I have had him for 6 years. Half of that time my parents cared for him because I was in college and he was not allowed in my living facility. He means a lot to me...even helped me through a period of depression. However, my fiance is in the AF and I will always be moving every 3-4 years. I believe that when you buy an animal...you don't just later give away. Everyone is providing me with reasons not to keep him. I am at a standstill. GAH!