I'm sorry to hear about your problems but I have to agree with the last few posts that you need to do what is right for your family and get you home and life in order. Pets are replaceable kids are not. I would sell the snakes and the rats and get the racks either dismantled and stored or just sell them too. Then fix what you need to and get your family back. I'm assuming because you posted this plea for help that you're open to suggestions and will see the writing on the wall. My house was robbed on April 9th, while my wife and 2 boys were home, and it traumatized her to the point of not feeling safe in the house, so I listed the house, sold it, moved almost all of our personal belongings into a storage unit and we are currently living in a 2br apartment waiting for our new house to be built. As part of this I had to re-home my 2 viv's with 5 Poison Dart Frogs, found new owners for my Crested Geckos, and found a temporary place for my snakes. All this was done in less than 2 months, in fact the majority of it was done in the first 3 weeks after the robbery.