Thank you for your encouragement. He's been awesome and I just sent him another email to see if he had any other suggestions in terms of getting her to feed. He never really gave me a hard date for when she hatched or how many meals he had managed to get in her before she was shipped off, so those were my main questions in this most recent email I sent him.
I'm gonna keep in close touch with him if he doesn't get sick of meI love this little girl to pieces and I want her to do well!
edit: i weighed her when I got her and she was at about 80-82 grams, but I didn't think about getting a weight on her when I fed her today, oops!