It definitely takes some handling before they'll come to you voluntarily, so don't be discouraged about that just yet. The good thing is that when they're not panicked, they'll give you warning when and where they're about to jump (like a puppy wiggling before pouncing), and you can put out a hand or something for them to jump to. I'm sure you've read about the hand-to-hand walking method. I'm not saying you *should* handle her now, just don't wait for her to ask you to pick her up before you decide it's time to start handling her.