I've had my 7 month old Kingpin for about two and a half weeks now and have handled her about 4-5 times. She's very shy and nervous. Every time I've handled her so far I have picker her up from under her hide and she's been very placid, not really moving around or exploring on my hand/arm. Last night, for the first time, I tried to pick her up when she was active in her enclosure. She instantly hissed at me and got in a striking position. It kind of turned me off and I ended up letting her chill that night. Should I have just picked her up anyways? Is it best to pick them up/handle them when they are less active vs. more active? I know I'm not supposed to be nervous or scared when handling, but I have been (both because I'm nervous of a strike and because I feel like I'm stressing her out) and I'm trying to work on my nervousness because I know it doesn't help the situation at all. Any tips for handling and conditioning a nervous BP?