But for getting in trouble, the words I would have for that woman...... Tough love time. I would either 1) Tell that...person... to shove her rules and BS somewhere real special or 2) find a new place to live (I didn't move to CO cause my in-laws said we couldn't bring our cats. Either you really want us to be there, or you don't. But my animals and I are a package.) or 3) find a new home for my animals (Yes, this sucks. Yes, it would hurt. But TBH it is selfish to keep them cause you love them, if it is detrimental to their health.). If she can't be remotely reasonable about the care of your animals... She doesn't love you like she says she does if she is making it so difficult for animals you love to be healthy and happy. It would be like someone telling me I can't use a heating method for my reptiles, or saying I can't have my cats use a litter box, they have to use a toilet. It's POSSIBLE that it would work. But it is unlikely to go well.