Thanks for the input. Well that is exactly what i'm doing...thawing the rats 3 feet away from the enclosure for a couple of hours having only a ir red lamp on and warming them up with a hair dryer at around 23:00. 100 degrees and then give it a go. I usually start with the roommates under him which need 1-2 seconds before grabbing the rats and start constricting. If it's stress i really don't know why...haven't been handling him more than a few times since i got him because i wanted to establish a good feeding response and never scared him or hurt him (at least that i know of). Also i live alone and am away working or sleeping almost 20hours a day, so i'm already "skillfully neglecting" him.
My ambients are around 78...but as i said the heat pad under the pvc is almost half the floor of every compartment so is getting enough heat from it. He still has a lot of hiding places in the cold side.
I will try your suggestions although i think it's pretty disappointing that i'm not able to hold him or behave normal to him. I mean i want to do what's best for him but i would really like to have him behaving like my other bps. And I'm leaving for 10 days next week and already feel bad for leaving him hungry (that is if he doesn't eat next week)
:/