Quote Originally Posted by hungba View Post
I've been trying to tell you what you are doing wrong, as it is obvious. It seems you are not listening.

Here is what you can do that will have the highest chance of getting him to eat again as soon ad possible, in easy 1,2,3 steps:

1) Don't try anything. Don't try live, don't change substrates, don't call everyone in Germany, don't handle him, don't dip stuff in chicken broth or tuna juice... DON'T DO ANYTHING! Just minimal cleaning and water changes, and leave the poor snake alone.
2) Skip a feeding, DO NOT EVEN TRY TO FEED HIM. Then the next week, offer food the way you did before, same color/size prey when he was eating.
3)If he doesn't eat, repeat.

If you follow these steps, maybe your snake will eat again. If you don't, he most likely won't. This is because it seems from your posts that there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with your snake.
I'm listening and I'm grateful for any input. really

I wish i was less paranoid and not blaming myself.