Welcome to ball-pythons.net. this is a great community and you will learn a lot from everybody here. Sounds like you have your hands full at home with 3 girls lol. My wife and I are expecting a boy in july so I expect to have a handfull. It will be our first. Sorry about your husband being diagnosed with PTSD. I know it can be a hard to deal with. My brother (did 4 years in the army) got diagnosed with PTSD a year ago and it has been a hard transition for him. I wish your husband the best of luck, and thank him for his service to our country. Again, welcome!!