you are correct that I want a python! im not particular to any type of python, the piebald was the one was daughter held and asked for and be sure that i didnt explain to her 200 times in 10 seconds that this was a snake and snakes can if provoked or uncomfortable bite, she understood and handled it very well. I dont think im ready for a $2000 dollar snake and yes with as little experience i have with the animals even i knew the mark up was through the roof. I dont have too much in common with my daughter as she is a girl and i am not, the tea parties and dress up gigs are starting to take their toll on me.....i think this is something we will both enjoy and hopefully caring for it and learning its personality will be a great bonding tool for both of us. cant thank you guys enough for all the input you have given me and i look forward to posting and hopefully one day giving newbies advice on this forum.