I don't have a BP yet (I will very soon though ) and I've been reading this forum literally nonstop for weeks. I think I've moved past the extremely newbie questions, however I won't be done asking new ones anytime soon.

One question I have now, is whether or not the way you feed determines how big your snake will get.
I don't really have a gender preference (Im not sure theres really any habitual differences between them,) but the only concern I have is how big the female COULD get.

Is there a way to like, not overfeed to the point where my first female ends up 5000 grams and 6 feet long? Or is it just you get what you get?