Update: well there's been a change for the better
i assist feed him a small furry today and put him in his tub and left him with the furry just in his mouth and saw him spit it out. I decided to leave him be for a while and when I came back an hour later the furry was consumed😄
atleast now he has something in his belly.
i will feed him again in 5 days unassisted and see I he does the deed.
thanks everyone for the help