Good to know. This male is always a little... intense. I've paired this female with other proven males before and while there were no locks, there was nothing like this going on. She was totally unreceptive to this and while I was holding him at arms length while he 'struck' at me, she was trying to flee. I am going to double and triple check her but was pretty confident she is a she. Good to know this CAN happen with opposite genders. I was about to be very bummed.