best way to feed is f/t. do use tongs. to feed, just dangle the mouse in front of his head or lay it on the floor and move it. make it look alive. if he dont take it then, leave the mouse in there for 4-6 hrs and keep people out of the room. rather you feed in tank or out is up to you. i feed in the tank. no problem with it. good luck, let us know how it goes!