Quote Originally Posted by mleonard View Post
I don't know if I'm not handling her enough or if it is something else.

I was just wondering how often I should be handling her and how long others snakes took for them to warm up to them.
It's definitely something else - it's a snake!

In all seriousness, you have a pet ball python, not a puppy. Some will seem to "warm up to you", while others will never be comfortable with you. The best you can hope for is to eventually break the "my person won't eat me" barrier. Expecting much more than that is setting the bar too high IMO.